What being a tutor in the WSWC taught me
By Hyunha Hwang
You want to teach both a cat and a dog how to sit. The dog immediately
learns how to sit after you reward him with a bone. Assuming that all animals
are the same, you do the same with the cat and reward her with a bone after
each time she sits.
Obviously the cat did not learn how to sit, moreover annoyed at you.
Tutoring at the West Springfield Writing Center has taught me a similar
lesson—or a realization—that not every tutee has the same process or incentive
in achieving what they would like to achieve during their writing process. For
example, there are tutees that come in to simply obtain the yellow pass
required for a grade, and there are tutees who willingly walk in with the
purpose of wanting to improve their writing. From that realization alone, being
a tutor has given me the skill of asking various types of open-ended questions
and suggesting ideas or corrections without having the tutee lose control of
their paper.
One tutee may come in with a partially complete paper and an
“I-don’t-want-to-do-this” face, plopping down onto the seat and sliding their
paper toward you as if the paper will complete itself without the input of any
effort. Then again, you might have another tutee with a paper that is
practically perfect and needs no refinements, leaving you clueless and lost
about what to do.
What these tutees teach us in return
Such “different types” of tutees give us the skills, as tutors, to adapt to
not only different kinds of people but the finesse in improvising from the
experience we build. No tutor in the writing center has a script to use for
every tutee that walks in to be tutored; some people need to be approached
differently, and we build a skill of creating conversations that don’t get
interrupted. Moreover, as tutors, we acquire a variety of teaching techniques
that can be applied in different situations. We’re able to explain concepts in
different ways and broaden ideas. This skill can be used in multiple real-life
situations that require communication skills.
As a tutor in the West Springfield Writing Center, I teach many people how
to write, but the people teach me the valuable life lesson of communication.
The more I develop as a tutor, the stronger my skills in interacting with
others become. Such lessons and experiences can only be learned by being a
tutor or a teacher, and I am grateful of these skills I have acquired.
I completely agree with you! You cannot always apply the same tutoring styles to every tutee. Adaptability is a good skill to have a tutor. I also love the cat and dog example you used in the beginning; it hooked me in!
ReplyDeleteThat link is so funny!
ReplyDeleteI loved your topic. I think we can also take away some good social skills from working with so many different people.
-Lexi
I have experienced this as well. You did a beautiful job with the cat and dog analogy and your link is really funny. I think it is really cool that you use the link as a way to further characterize the cat without having to state everything outright. I have definitely tutored some grumpy cats! Do you have any tips for tutoring a cat-like tutee? What technique have you found that they respond to the best?
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