“When will you understand that being normal isn’t necessarily a virtue? It rather denotes a lack of courage.”The movie? Practical Magic.The year? 1998. The ratings? Not good. But that’s not what I’m here to talk about.
What I’m really interested in on this particular day are those strange people you see all over the world. Maybe they’re at the mall, maybe at school, maybe at church, or maybe even the park.
A story for example:
This lady in my ward at church has a brain tumor—and it’s pretty bad. So bad that she has lost her sight and she can no longer lift things or drive. Sad, I know. But this lady is probably one of the nicest people I've ever met. So I babysit for her while she goes to doctor's appointments, and basically whenever she needs someone to help out. This past Saturday, the day before Mother's Day, I babysat for her children in the afternoon. It was the perfect kind of day. Low to mid-seventies, and after watching the children like a prison guard watches prisoners without chains on for about four hours, I decided that we all needed a trip to the park for a cool down.
This year is my last year at home for Mother's Day-- I'll be going away to college in the fall. And so I wanted to go out with a bang. So between the presents, a scarf and a necklace, I bought for my mom, and the breakfast-in-bed ordeal I was planning, complete with a Raspberry-Citrus Slushie that was to die for, Mother's Day was on my mind. Each picture the children colored was for their mother's special day.
But I was still feeling disappointed with my efforts. All of the pictures were abstract, and no one wanted me to write, "I love you, Mommy" at the top. But I figured, at least we've done something.
So up at the park, all the swings are taken. One in particular is occupied by a fourteen-year-old boy who looks far too big for it. He eventually got off but when you babysit, you tend to watch people closely--even if they are fourteen. This boy was talking to all the adults at the park and the children. He was obviously harmless, but he was a little weird. And yes, in my prejudiced mind I was thinking, "Okay, steer clear of this one."
Then all of a sudden I look over and this boy has pulled out a balloon animal kit, and is making balloon animals up the wazoo! He quickly stopped and switched to Mother's Day flowers such as these:
The best part was he was giving them out for free--as a promo for his business! Although the children wanted to go home and go inside, I made them all wait in line for flowers for their mother. It was like a cherry on a sundae to their Mother's Day presents.
The best part was he was giving them out for free--as a promo for his business! Although the children wanted to go home and go inside, I made them all wait in line for flowers for their mother. It was like a cherry on a sundae to their Mother's Day presents.
As we were leaving the park, this boy gave me his business card and told me to call him anytime I was having a party and needed balloon animals. I mean, I'm eighteen so I don't think I'll be needing too many balloon animals made for me in the near future. :) But if you'd like his information for your next party, you can email me and I'll send it to you.
Once again, appearances were proven wrong today, and an odd, but obviously kind and talented boy presented me with three balloon animal flowers for Mother's Day. I'm fairly certain I got a bigger kick out of this than the children. One popped before we even got home, and no one was too disappointed. But what can I say? I'm a sucker for stupid, sentimental gifts.
Love it! Next time your birthday rolls around, I'm going to have this boy make you as many balloon animals as you want. I kind of love when my first impressions are completely wrong. I'm full of assumptions about people, and you know the saying about what happens when you assume things... I feel like this story would've made an awesome college essay!
ReplyDeleteoh, I forgot to write my name in that post... it was Julie
ReplyDeleteI think that this is such a great story not only about people's kindness but also myabout the fact that outward appearances can be extremely decieving. I, like many people, am guilty of making assumptions about people or limiting my interations with someone because I think they might be a little odd. However, this story is a good reminder to me that I need to take the time to get to know someone before I make a snap judgement!
ReplyDelete-Lindsay
Did anyone else notice that this 14 (!!) year old boy has a legitimate business and his own business cards!? We're probably going to be investing in his company in 15 years!
ReplyDeleteI'm not going to lie...I think the best part about this post is that delicious and easy slushie recipe! Yum yum yum!
That's cute. :) Even though I'm 17, I think I'd still enjoy balloon animals for a party or something. Hahahaha. Maybe..
ReplyDelete&I didn't even think about that, Mai-Vi! Haha. That's really cool. I wonder how successful this kind of business really is, though. I don't really think balloon-blowing is too high in demand at the moment.
--Bailey
Emily, Emily, Emily ... forcing small children to stand in line at the park to do something for their mother. Teaching morals whether or not they are readily accepted. Keeping society in ship shape. I salute you and your endeavors to correct those children.
ReplyDeleteHahaha, just kidding! (But I did think that was pretty funny.)
- Jacob
umm i liked Practical Magic... but anyways, that could be one of the nicest/creepiest things ever for a mothers day gift. Cudos to the balloon man, and here's hoping he isn't dimmented.
ReplyDelete-Molly